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« Reply #570 on: August 09, 2008, 05:07:43 AM »

US - Nassau Board of Cooperative Educational Services, 16-year-old M2F gender variant 10th-grader Melissa Andrews (nee Michael Arone) face challenge... [2008-08-09 Lower Hudson Journal News]

http://www.lohud.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2008808090361

BOCES (Nassau Board of Cooperative Educational Services), transgender teen face challenge

BY BEN RUBIN
THE JOURNAL NEWS

AUGUST 09, 2008

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Michael Arone, 16, a transgender teen who also goes by Melissa Andrews, stands Monday in the bedroom of her family's home in West Haverstraw. Patricia Arone has contacted the Clarkstown and Haverstraw police departments over continued harassment of her transgender teen, Michael, 16, who also goes by Melissa Andrews. "He's dealing with a hate crime," said Patricia Arone, 37, who often refers to Arone as Michael. "That's the only way to say it, it's hate." (Angela Gaul/The Journal News Angela Gaul/The Journ)

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Michael Arone has been called every pejorative someone could direct at a transgender teen.

But, while most harassment the 16-year-old West Haverstraw resident faced has been short-lived, Arone reached a breaking point at a summer school program in Clarkstown South High School.

Arone, a North Rockland school district 10th-grader, is a male transgender teen who publicly goes by Melissa Andrews and prefers to be referred to as a female.

Arone said classmates have routinely called her "faggot," "she-male," "it" and "queer" in response to her wearing eye shadow and lipstick, straightening her shoulder-length brown hair and carrying a purse to school.

"He's dealing with a hate crime," said her mother, Patricia Arone, 37, who often refers to Arone as Michael. "That's the only way to say it, it's hate."

In one instance at Clarkstown South, a female student tried to punch Arone and said, "Come fight me, you faggot," according to a Clarkstown police report.

Arone said she had a dating relationship with this girl, but the girl began instigating much of the harassment against Arone after they broke up, Arone said.

In response to the harassment at summer school, administrators agreed to have Arone come to school through a separate entrance than other students and also changed her class period and escorted her to and from class.

The Rockland Board of Cooperative Educational Services, which provides special services to local school districts, runs the summer program, which is attended by high school students from around the county who didn't pass their course work or a Regents exam. The program started July 1 and ends Tuesday.

"The staff interceded and it is not tolerating that," BOCES administrator Bud Renella said about students harassing Arone.

He confirmed that Arone has been "heckled" by other students but added that she has also responded to others "in like and in kind."

Experts in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender, or LGBT, issues questioned BOCES' direction in dealing with the situation.

"I think removing the student and having them moved sounds like punishing them for being victimized," said J.R. Cehonski, a local LGBT youth initiative coordinator.

The bullying began during the second week of school, Arone said, soon after she and the girl she was dating broke up. Since then, that girl and several others threatened Arone, sent her hateful text messages and called her names in class, Arone said.

Arone, who came out as a transgender person about a year ago, kept the harassment secret for several weeks, but then told her mother about it on July 25.

The Arones have called police three times from July 25 to July 30 to report incidents stemming from her harassment at the summer school program.

During the July 25 incident, a boy came to a home where Arone was spending time with another teenager and motioned as if he wanted to fight Arone, according to a Haverstraw police report. Arone ran into the home and called police.

The incident at the high school was referred to Clarkstown police.

"I think this is pretty much in the hands of the school," Clarkstown Police Sgt. Harry Baumann said. "We can't automatically press charges because this is something we didn't witness."

The Arones said they have received little assistance from BOCES in ending the bullying, as other students have called her names in front of teachers and staff with little reaction from the adults.

Arone said she was well treated at her previous school, Fieldstone Secondary School, but expressed reluctance about starting classes at North Rockland High School after her summer school experience.

Renella, BOCES' assistant superintendent for administration, defended BOCES' handling of the issue.

"The administration has been dealing with this only this week and it's just been brought to their attention," he said. "It's not being ignored; it's being addressed."

BOCES spokeswoman Stephanie Gouss said the agency has a zero-tolerance bullying policy but has no protocols on transgender student issues.

"This situation has raised our awareness, as this is something we're going to have to take a look at," she said.

Arone said she felt the administration was punishing the victim and "quarantining" her from other students by making her use a different entrance and giving her an escort.

"I should be treated like a normal human being and allowed to walk the hallways like everyone else," the teenager said.

Renella said BOCES staffers were not attempting to isolate Arone. Instead, they were trying to protect her, Renella said, not because Arone was transgender but because she had disciplinary issues and provoked others - something Arone denied doing.

"There was some name-calling, but it was both ways," Renella said about Arone and the girl she was dating. "Neither of these students have acted appropriately, and both have been addressed."

He added that both students were spoken to, but neither was suspended or punished. He said BOCES' primary goals were to keep the two students safe and make sure they passed their classes.

Cehonski, the LGBT youth coordinator for Community Awareness Network for a Drug-free Life and Environment, said isolating a bullied teen is not the answer and is a plan sometimes used when administrators feel they have no other options. CANDLE, based in New City, is a drug and violence prevention agency for youth, with an LGBT initiative called Youth Pride.

He said a reaction like the one BOCES used can "re-injure" bullied teens by changing their schedules and routines.

There are much stronger societal sensitivities toward bigotry against race or national origin, Cehonski said, but transgender individuals remain the most misunderstood and victimized of those in the LGBT community. Because of this, he said, transgender harassment can often go unnoticed.

Matt Faiella, a staff attorney with the New York Civil Liberties Union who specializes in LGBT issues, called BOCES reaction "fully inadequate."

Current law states schools must respond to any harassment case in the same way, so creating exceptional circumstances around one student may not comply with these laws, Faiella said.

He added that BOCES administrators should be addressing the broader issue of intolerance at the summer school and should provide more staff training on bias-based harassment.

"It's too easy for a school to ignore this kind of harassment," he said.

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Staff writer Steve Lieberman contributed to this report.
Reach Ben Rubin at bfrubin@lohud.com or 845-578-2420.

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Italy - M2F gender variant politician Vladimir Luxuria heads for celebrity island... [2008-08-10 Sunday Herald]

http://www.sundayherald.com/international/shinternational/display.var.2421896.0.0.php
   
August 10, 2008

Nation’s first transgender MP takes up next challenge: reality television
Left-wing campaigner heads for celebrity island

From Philip Willan in Rome

THE ANNOUNCEMENT that Italy's first transgender MP will participate in a Survivor-style reality television show in September has surprised her many admirers. Vladimir Luxuria - whose real name is Wladimiro Guadagno - was one of many left-wing MPs to lose their seats after Silvio Berlusconi's crushing electoral victory last April.

An actor and campaigner for homosexual rights, Luxuria, 43, was viewed with suspicion by many when she was first elected to parliament two years ago for the Communist Refoundation Party. The parliamentary controversy for which she is best remembered concerned her right to use the ladies' toilets in the Chamber of Deputies, a right that was fiercely contested by the former TV showgirl Elisabetta Gardini, who was beginning her parliamentary career with Berlusconi's centre-right Forza Italia party.

Luxuria served as a member of the parliamentary committee for culture, science and education and her intelligence, sense of humour and tireless campaigning for the rights of sexual minorities left a favourable impression on most observers.

An online poll showed recently that of all the MPs who had lost their seats, she would be the most missed by the Italian public. Many Communist Refoundation supporters were therefore dismayed when she announced her participation in The Island Of The Famous, a version of Celebrity Big Brother filmed on a tropical island off the coast of Honduras, where she will compete with assorted showgirls, a TV conjuror and the former football player, Antonio Cabrini.

The fear is that Luxuria will dissipate the credit accumulated in two years of high-profile contribution to the national political debate.

The Big Brother experience of Westminster MP George Galloway, of the Respect party, might also serve as a cautionary tale. Intending to get his political message across to the widest possible audience, "Gorgeous George's" television antics ended up costing him respect - with a small "r".

That seemed to be the consensus among the party faithful, who wrote in to the party newspaper Liberazione to warn against the move.

Paola Nardi from Vicenza said: "She will earn the equivalent of 300 years of wages for a worker who may have voted Communist Refoundation and contributed to her election." Others castigated the show as "the ultimate in trash TV".

Luxuria has accepted the criticism with good grace, saying she intended to set out for the island equipped with goggles for snorkelling, her Buddhist prayerbook, and tweezers, to ensure that her eyebrows remain elegantly plucked. Known for her stylish dress sense, Luxuria said she would be packing simple bathing costumes and sarongs - "No suits, or I'd have the toucans in hysterics."

The tweezers and a razor were essential, she pointed out: "In that tropical climate, I don't want the fur to be growing as abundantly as the vegetation."

She has prepared for the experience by learning to swim and recently had a breast enhancement operation, which should guarantee she looks her best on the beach.

"The struggle for survival is nothing new for me," she told the Corriere della Sera newspaper. "Parliament too is full of sharks and barracudas." Experience of the debating chamber would also come in useful for reality TV, she said.

"When I first sat at my bench there were photographers with their telephoto lenses ready to catch me if I yawned or immortalise me if I put my fingers in my nose."

Luxuria says she views the castaway experience as an opportunity for professional growth - she has already appeared in nine films - and to express her ideas, as well as "to put myself to the test once again".

TV presenter Daria Bignardi said in an interview published last week that she would be cheering for Luxuria. The participation of the transgender former MP in a television programme aimed at families was a good way of combating the prejudice that still existed in Italian society, she said.

Most commentators who wrote in to Bignardi's blog took a similar view, saying Luxuria's decision was understandable "in a country famous for the osmosis between showbusiness and politics" and that it would bring the former MP into contact with sectors of the public that were ideologically far removed from Communist Refoundation.

The party did not manage to return a single MP to parliament at the last election.

Angela Azzaro, the managing editor of Liberazione, agreed. She wrote: "These are the programmes that create consensus and establish a direct contact with those citizens who have turned their backs on us."

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Posted by: Wullie on 10:39pm Sat 9 Aug 08
Who cares? I don't!

Unless he/she bothers other people we should just let him / her get on with it.

There is worse than people who beleive that they are trapped in the wrong body.

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US - M2F gender variant Indonesian Michelle Saraswati (nee Michael Setiabudi) granted US asylum... [2008-08-10 Jakarta Post]

http://old.thejakartapost.com/detailfeatures.asp?fileid=20080810.F09&irec=9August 10, 2008

U.S. grants asylum in Indonesian transgender case

The United States granted,for the first time, an asylum claim to an Indonesian transsexual last month, an activist said.

Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights organization Arus Pelangi founder King Oey, said that Michelle Saraswati, 42, formerly known as Michael Setiabudi, won her case at the San Fransisco Immigration Court in July.

Michelle, a graduate from Trisakti University school of architecture, came to the United States in 1998 as a gay man. She stayed illegally after her work visa expired in 2001 and after her asylum claim as a gay man was rejected in 2005.

In August 2006 she was arrested for violation of immigration rules. She appealed and her case was re-opened as a transgender.

King acted as an expert trial witness by telephone, describing the quality of life of transgender people here.

Lack of laws and legal recourse in Indonesia for transgender discrimination and limited employment opportunities for transvestites was her main justification to seek asylum in the United States.

Foreign Affairs Ministry spokesperson Teuku Faizasyah when contacted on the matter said that Michelle had been seeking asylum since 2001.

"We are still checking whether her claim has been granted or not," Faizasyah said.

Fellow gay Indonesian Paul Amro Yuwono residing in San Fransisco, who helped Michelle in her case, told The Jakarta Post through email that support from the LGBT community in San Fransisco was strong.

Their network succeeded in collecting money to bail Michelle out of jail.

Paul said that he flew to Indonesia to collect letters from the LGBT community here and from friends to support Michelle's case.

"I had a mixed reaction from them. Some of them were too scared to do so and some of them were angry at me for supporting this case. They thought I was being a traitor and (that) I looked down on my own country," Paul said in his email.

"The only person who willingly helped to write a witness letter was a good friend of mine, Vina Gracia who is a transgender herself. She wrote a letter telling about her life struggle in Yogyakarta and Jakarta as a transgender," Paul said.

He added that support also came from Gaya Nusantara founder Dede Utomo, KRT Daud Wiryo Hadinegoro, film director Nia Dinata and other close friends in the GLBT Organization.

Paul said that Michelle's case could be a wake up call for the government to eliminate discrimination and do more to protect sexual minorities.

"They are loosing their own talented people. Michelle is an architect and soon she will take up a great job in a design and architecture company. Michelle is only one example."

"There are many Indonesians including GBLT and other minorities that have bailed out from Indonesia and are building a good life here in the United States," he said.

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US - Angie Zapata (nee Justin Zapata) - Friends, family gather to say goodbye to slain woman... [2008-08-10 Greeley Tribune]

http://www.greeleytribune.com/article/20080810/NEWS/865256674/1001&parentprofile=-1

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Friends, family gather to say goodbye to slain woman

Andrew Villegas

Monica Zapata reflected Saturday night in front of 200 people about her sister's life and death and could not keep from leaning on her family an arm's length away.

"We never knew how dangerous this world is," Zapata said, remembering her sister Angie Zapata, a transgender woman killed in Greeley in mid-July. "You are who you are and you should never be ashamed."

Officials say Angie Zapata was the target of a hate crime after a man she was on a date with beat her to death with his fists and a fire extinguisher after learning she was biologically male, according to police. The man, Allen Ray Andrade, faces first-degree murder charges in connection with the death and charges of a bias-motivated crime -- a felony.

Angie Zapata would have celebrated her 19th birthday last week.

"She always knew she was supposed to be a girl. And we knew it too," Monica Zapata said. "Don't remember her as transgendered but remember her as a beautiful, loving woman."

Others shared their memories of Angie Zapata and stood in solidarity against hate crimes. Many transgender people came to remember Angie Zapata and to mourn with the Zapata family.

The message from people who spoke was that hate will not be tolerated in Greeley.

Kelly Costello, director of victim services for the Colorado Anti-Violence Program, said everyone has a responsibility to make sure people who are different can live without fear and that they have the same rights everyone else does.

"We must call out hate in all its forms and at all times," Costello said.

The vigil also attracted Rep. Jim Riesberg, D-Greeley, and other lawmakers and community activists.

Rhonda Solis of Greeley said the issue of murder of a transgender woman isn't about being different, it's about bigotry and intolerance for other people.

"I challenge all of us to take the next step to end intolerance," Solis said. "We all deserve dignity, we all deserve respect and we are all enough."

One person read a note from Judy Shepard, the mother of Matthew Shepard, who was killed near Laramie, Wyo., in 1998 because he was gay.

Before everyone in attendance lit candles to remember Angie Zapata, transgender activist Donna Rose said Angie Zapata didn't ask to become a martyr or a symbol.

"It takes courage to live in a world that tries to force you into a box," Rose said. "It's a shame that we have to die to see our community loves us."

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« Reply #574 on: August 11, 2008, 01:48:25 AM »

Switzerland - Sexual dysfunction - The brain-body connection... [2008-08-10  NMN]

http://www.news-medical.net/?id=40581

Sexual dysfunction - The brain-body connection

Sunday, 10-Aug-2008

Medical Condition News

When asked, everyone seems to agree that sex is an important part of life and that sexual health is important for one's overall well-being.

Yet, based on a US study, 43% of women and 31% of men experience some sort of sexual dysfunction like decreased libido, premature or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, difficulty with orgasms, pain during intercourse, to name but a few. Succesful treatment is hence tantamount to improve many people's quality of life.

This volume, written by a team of international experts in the area of sexology, is an authoritative review of the latest developments in the diagnosis and treatment of sexual dysfunction. Areas such as impact of psychotropic medications, mental and physical illness and substance abuse on sexual functioning are covered, and several sexual dysfunctions - hypoactive sexual desire disorder, male erectile disorder and premature ejaculation - are reviewed in detail. A chapter on the developments in imaging of sexual dysfunction, an area that is undergoing rapid expansion, is also included.

This publication, filled with a variety of clinically essential information, provides psychiatrists, psychologists, sex therapists, urologists, gynecologists, both clinically and research oriented, with the latest developments in the area of sexual dysfunction.

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Chile - Gay rights group outraged over transphobic comments directed at Transvestite Trade Union President Zuliana Araya... [2008-08-11 Valparaiso Times]

http://www.valparaisotimes.cl/content/view/413/25/

GAY RIGHTS GROUP OUTRAGED AT ‘TRANSPHOBIC’ COMMENTS

by Natalie Hart
   
Monday, 11 August 2008

“Transphobic” comments by a candidate for a city alderman’s position in Valparaiso sparked outrage this week from Chile’s leading gay rights group – the Chilean Movement for Sexual Minorities (MOVILH).

MOVILH on Wednesday expressed its “deep discomfort” at the “transphobic” comments made by Independent Democratic Union Party (UDI) Valparaíso city council candidate Jaime Barrientos, who described transsexuality as “a sin that goes against nature.”

The comments emerged during a fiery debate between evangelical lawyer Barrientos and Transvestite Trade Union President Zuliana Araya, a city council candidate for the Party for Democracy (PPD). Barrientos arrived at the meeting, organized by Valparaíso daily La Estrella, bearing the gift of a Bible, which Araya initially refused to accept while voicing her distress at his comments.

“You can’t attack me in this way,” Araya told Barrientos. “Don’t you know how many votes you are losing by treating me like this? I was born and bred in Valparaíso, and here we have a more open mentality. We accept everyone how they are.”

“I do not regret what I said to you,” Barrientos responded. “I respect you as a person, but I cannot change my life’s doctrine or the Bible, which clearly states that God made man and woman and that your condition is a sin. If my stance on valuing the word of the Bible means losing votes, then I will lose them, as I have no intention of winning votes by transgressing my values.”

MOVILH lamented Barrientos’ comments, which they said display a profound ignorance of transsexuality. According to scientific studies, transsexuality is a gender identity in which a person’s sexual identification lies entirely with the opposite sex, MOVILH explained. “A gender identity that a person does not choose and that does not result in any danger for anybody cannot be a sin,” the organization said.

“With his outrageous ignorance, even confusing homosexuality with transsexuality, he defends the idea that there are first and second-class citizens – an assessment typical of neo-Nazis,” MOVILH said. “We have to hope that these arbitrary differences and inequalities that he promotes will be rejected in the Valparaíso elections this October.”

In an interview with blog La Auto Rebelde last year, Araya clearly defined her identity as transgender. “Transvestites are those who do shows, and transsexuals are those who have the operation, but I don’t what to cut anything off. I’m fine as I am,” she said.

SOURCE: LA NACION

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International - Advice to gender variant folk on: Safe Dating, the Silent Alarm, and Signs of Predation... [2008-08-11 Trans Group Blog]

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Monday, August 11, 2008

Safe Dating, the Silent Alarm, and Signs of Predation

This originally appeared at the Bilerico Project in draft form, and this finished version is also crossposted at dentedbluemercedes < http://dentedbluemercedes.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/safe-dating-the-silent-alarm-and-signs-of-predation/#more-79 > and albertatrans.org.

I do not take credit for the safecall concept -- it has been around for decades, and I first encountered it through the leather community (a version of it has also been present for a long time among escorts). But I do consider this advice important to anyone in a risky dating situation, i.e. for pre- or non-op transsexuals, queer communities, online dating communities, some sex trade or adult entertainment performance situations, or even just simple everyday blind dates. This is written without prejudice, in the understanding that in no circumstance does a person ever deserve to become a casualty. As such, permission is given to reprint this without modification (although it can be prefaced or followed with additions) anywhere that people feel this advice will be useful. I cannot guarantee your safety, but it's my hope that this can help.

Blind dating is never risk-free, especially when some aspect of a person's life exists that can cause negative reactions, or when an aspect of their life means that they might be potential prey to predators. When meeting a person for the first time, you will be completely unaware of any history of confusion, instability or biases they may have. First impressions are never enough, and the greater the risk, the more secure the safety net is needed. The recent and tragic murder of Angie Zapata is only one of thousands of stories in which dates have gone bad, and it demonstrates how serious the consequences can be.

One habit that can minimize the risk is known as the "silent alarm" (sometimes also called the "safecall"). There are several variations of this procedure... you can settle on what is most comfortable for you.

For your first meeting, it's best to insist on a public place. A restaurant or a mall coffee shop is ideal. Never agree to meet a stranger in a private place such as a hotel room or home. Make sure that your transportation to and from your first meeting is under your control -- don't rely on your date for a ride home. And don't let someone know your home address until you're comfortable with them first. If prior discussion indicates a mutual plan of going someplace later for more private fun (which might include your place or theirs), agree on the location in advance, and have the address to this location. If this location changes unexpectedly, this may be a warning sign to get out or call for help. An alternative is to meet in a double-date, group-date or activity group setting or outing.

A "silent alarm" is a situation in which you tell a trusted friend where you are going, and when you expect to be back; you also give him or her any information that you may have about the person you will be seeing and the place you will be going. You arrange with that friend to call at a prearranged time, no matter what the events of the evening bring. If you don't check in, your friend is to call the local authorities immediately, with any information they have. It's also a good idea to prearrange with this friend to have a code word or phrase that you might include during your phone conversation, in the event that you are forced to make the call under duress, and need to indicate that you need help, without arousing suspicion from a person threatening you.


Helpful points:

   - If you have your date's phone number, try to arrange to call it first, to verify that it is correct.

   - Inform your friend beforehand what your plans for the evening are: time, place, etc. If anything changes, let them know during a check-in call.

   - Don't use your date's phone or cell, in order to help avoid the call being traced later, thereby potentially putting your friend in danger. Cell phones add a certain element of potential danger to your friends, so depending on the level of risk, you may want to consider this.

   - This isn't just a first-time procedure, but can be maintained (perhaps relaxed gradually) for as long as you remain uncertain about someone.

   - The "silent alarm" is most useful as a deterrent. If your date knows that you need to check in with a friend, they'll know that if they harm you, this will alert someone else. The point is that he (or she) knows that there will be some accountability if anything goes bad. Some dates may be offended by this, but most should understand that it is sound advice for blind dating.

As overcautious as this may seem, when it comes to blind dates, people met online and the like, there is virtue to it. You can, of course, modify the procedure to suit your situation, and if you feel that a more relaxed system of simply passing your date's name and number on to your friend and arranging to call them whenever the date is over will suffice, then do that. But any Plan B is better than nothing.

If your friend needs to call police, they should stick to referring to the encounter as a date. They should not disclose any information that might bias the dispatcher at the other end of the phone (i.e. if you are a member of a racial group or transsexual, or if any money is being exchanged or porn being produced).

If something goes seriously bad, vigilanteism is generally not preferred to police intervention. However, in some communities, such as where racial bias, homophobia / transphobia or discrimination against sex trade work may be present, silent alarm planning may also need to include having a personal supporter drive to the scene of a situation in the event of an emergency. That person is not to intervene or be seen unless circumstances leave no other option to ensure personal safety. There is a great degree of additional risk in this, so it should only be considered in certain situations (i.e. potential for discrimination from authorities on the basis of sex work or race) and only if the person is trusted to not be hot-headed enough to jump into danger themselves. That person's first role should be to act as an advocate in whatever aftermath may occur only -- not to interfere with the police on the scene, but to observe (a camera recorder of some kind may even be warranted) and hold them accountable for their actions; also to follow you to anywhere you may be taken, and help obtain your release if charged for any offence. Discrimination has not been completely dealt with in society, so unfortunately, this does need to be a consideration.

In addition to the silent alarm / safecall, there are other things to remember:

Never let your drink out of your sight. If it is being poured in a private setting by someone you've recently met, be sure you've observed the pouring of the drink, right from when the glass was first selected. This may sound paranoid, but the use of date rape drugs is not a new thing.

If you hadn't planned on anything sexual but are suddenly directed that way by someone you've just met, be suspicious. Your best bet is to get out of that situation at that time, and assess how this person reacts to your refusal. A non-predatory person is much more apt to understand and respect the word no, and the reasons that you would have for not wanting to jump into anything too quickly.

For beyond first dates, it is also important to watch for signs of predatory behaviour. It is true that some signs can be misread, but if they are cumulative, the evidence grows stronger. Be wary of:

   - Attempts to isolate you from friends, family and / or acquaintances. This can include insistence on moving right away to a location that is inconvenient or impossible for them to visit, or wanting to prevent people from knowing where you are.

   - Attempts to make you dependent upon them financially or emotionally (i.e. trying to turn you against your friends).

   - Controlling behaviour which restricts where you go or who you talk to.

There is often more to safe sex than condoms (but don't forget those, either!). The greater the risk, the more you may want to do to prepare yourself.


Trans-Specific Precautions

Male-to-female transsexuals additionally have to keep in mind that after having spent time on hormone therapy, they lose much of the strength and energy that they may be accustomed to -- and as women, they may also be subject to more predation than they realize. One must not be overconfident, and instead should take some time to learn practical self-defense.


On Disclosure

For pre-operative or non-op transsexuals (sometimes even for post-ops, as surgical status sometimes does not mean much to a person who finds that their partner had been born a different sex) -- particularily MTF, but FTMs also have risks here -- disclosure is a serious issue, and there is in fact no "right" or "wrong" answer to that question. In an ideal situation, it would be best to be up-front at a time in which your privacy is protected (i.e. an online dating service which does not publish your contact information), before any other serious discussion or activity takes place. If the date is still interested, it's usually safe to proceed (with the suggestions above). In reality, there can be concerns and dissatisfactions with the type of people available to be found in these situations, and live contact can be preferable. Then, it gets iffier.

Disclosing has its risks. Whether before or after dating, transphobia can cause people to react violently, or vindictively (in the latter case, outing you to friends, the public and perhaps other potentially violent persons). It's not impossible for such a situation to lead to a later ambush. Disclosure after or during dating does have a higher degree of risk from the date him or herself, however, so this should be considered.

Telling is up to a person's discretion. But what is absolutely crucial is knowing who you're talking to. When trans issues appear in the news (i.e. the "pregnant man," the civil rights fights in Maryland, Colorado and Gainesville), they can usually be safely brought up in casual conversation as a way to see how a person will react to the subject (bring it up neutrally, -- i.e. you express no opinion -- or you could out yourself just from that). Before that, get to know how liberal (s)he is on other civil rights issues, GLB, racial, feminism, workplace equality. If (s)he's closed-minded to key parts of these or a majority, your date could be a timebomb, and you're safer to not proceed any further.

If (s)he seems pretty liberal, it's not a guarantee he'll accept. But it improves the odds considerably.

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(Thanks are due to Monica Roberts < http://transgriot.blogspot.com/ >, Jan and the readership at The Bilerico Project < http://www.bilerico.com/ > for helping refine some of this via discussion.)

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Jamaica - Cases of violence directed at homosexuals are far fewer than the gay lobby would have the world believe... [2008-08-12 Jamaica Observer]

http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/editorial/html/20080811T200000-0500_138942_OBS_THE_GAY_LOBBY_SCAM.asp

Editorial

The gay lobby scam

Lloyd B Smith

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

We'll give the benefit of the doubt to United States immigration judge Irma Lopez-Defillo who last week decided against deporting a Jamaican-born lesbian on the grounds that, because of her sexual orientation, she might be tortured here.

For quite frankly, Judge Lopez-Defillo's ruling would have been informed by the picture being painted of Jamaica by the international gay lobby.

So when Judge Lopez-Defillo is reported as saying, "the general atmosphere in Jamaica is a feeling of no tolerance towards homosexuals in general and, as such, the respondent's life is definitely at risk", we really can't blame her. Because, as we said, that's the impression that the world has of Jamaica, courtesy of gay rights activists who are meeting resistance in their efforts to force their lifestyle upon Jamaicans.

What is becoming clear to us, however, is that homosexual Jamaicans are using this argument to legitimise their immigration status in North America and Europe.

And this most recent case of this 29-year-old lesbian is a perfect example of the scam being perpetrated by gay Jamaicans on the authorities abroad.

In fact, we are sure that every Jamaican who read this story last week had a good chuckle, mostly for the fact that Jamaicans have, over the past decade at least, demonstrated a higher level of tolerance for homosexuality among women.

So, her 33-year-old brother, who was reported in the story as telling the court that she would be ostracised if sent back to Jamaica, was really being disingenuous. And the court bought it, hook, line and sinker.

We are not here denying that gay men have not been attacked and beaten in Jamaica. We have reported on some of these atrocities and have condemned them in this space.

However, no one can challenge the fact that many gay men and women in Jamaica are generally ignored by the populace. In fact, the cases of violence directed at homosexuals are far fewer than the gay lobby would have the world believe.

And in many of those cases we have found that it was the public display of homosexual men and their physical response to public criticism that led to them being attacked.

The nonsense spewed by Mr Robert Carr at the just-concluded International AIDS Society XVII Conference in Mexico does not help the gay lobby either.

Mr Carr, the executive director of the Caribbean Vulnerable Communities Coalition, in relating an incident in Half-Way-Tree when gay men were mobbed, chose to ignore the reported fact that the mobbing took place after one of the men splashed liquid on a woman who found their behaviour distasteful and said so.

He also neglected to point out that the men were rescued by the police, offering only that, "in a context where people denied homophobic violence, the police show up armed and the media show up to take pictures".

That the Jamaican police patrol the streets armed is not an aberration. Neither is the fact that media cover events in public, including disturbances.

As we have argued before, people who regard homosexuality as sinful and repulsive will more easily bristle at the gay lobby's push to force acceptance of their lifestyle.

And that resistance is strengthened when homosexuals are quick to cry homophobia when one of their own is murdered, even in the face of evidence suggesting that the homicide was committed by a jealous lover.

We'll repeat a suggestion we offered to the gay lobby three months ago. Instead of trying to sully Jamaica's name, allow Jamaicans to adapt to changing perceptions of people's lifestyles and the fact that individuals of all kinds can coexist.

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Germany - Nature or Nurture-Are You Who Your Brain Chemistry Says You Are? [2008-08-13 Brightsurf Science News]

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Nature or Nurture-Are You Who Your Brain Chemistry Says You Are?

August 13, 2008

A First-of-Its-Kind PET Study Reveals Direct Link Between Hereditary Personality Trait and Brain's Endorphine System, According to an Article in The Journal of Nuclear Medicine

Reston, Va.-Researchers using positron emission tomography (PET) have validated a long-held theory that individual personality traits-particularly reward dependency-are connected to brain chemistry, a finding that has implications for better understanding and treating substance abuse and other addictive behaviors.

In a study to identify biochemical correlates of personality traits in healthy humans, researchers focused their investigation for the first time on the role of the brain's opioidergic (or endorphine) system-specifically, the connection between an individual's level of reward expectancy and the brain's ability to transmit naturally occurring opiates. The study included 23 males with no history of substance abuse who were administered Fluoro-ethyl-diprenorphine-a radiolabeled chemical that binds readily to the brain's naturally occurring opiate system- and then underwent a PET scan.

The scans were compared to the results of each participant's Cloninger temperament and character inventory, a questionnaire that assesses human personality based on four dimensions: novelty seeking, harm avoidance, reward dependence and persistence. The comparison revealed that the binding to opiate receptors in the ventral striatum-an area of the brain known to be a central part of the reward system-correlated narrowly to the individual degree of reward dependence. The participants who skewed toward a high need to feel rewarded by approval were also those with the highest uptake of opiates, or endorphins, in the reward system.

"Our main finding was that reward dependence is the only personality dimension correlated with opiate receptor binding, and that positive correlation was restricted to the ventral striatum, which is considered the key area of the human reward system and of the development of addictive behavior," said Peter Bartenstein, M.D., professor of nuclear medicine, Ludwig Maximilians-University, Munich, Germany. "This correlation means that people with high reward dependence have a high concentration of opiate receptors available in that area, while people with low dependence have fewer opiate receptors."

According to the researchers, the biological purpose of the human reward system is to initiate behavior essential for the maintenance of the individual-for example, food intake-or the species-for example, reproduction. Therefore, food or sexual stimuli lead to an opioid-modulated dopamine release in core structures of the reward system and subsequently induce the sensation of craving. Modern addiction research maintains that genetic or acquired abuses of the reward system are the central basis for the development of addictive behavior. This latest finding suggests that individuals suffering from a relative endorphine deficit in their reward system show increased reward dependence and are probably more at risk for developing addictions.

"This is a novel finding and will provide a deeper understanding of the functional relation between human personality, neurobiology and addictive behavior," said Mathias Schreckenberger, M.D., professor of nuclear medicine, Johannes Gutenberg-University, Mainz, Germany. "Understanding the central role of neurotransmission processes in certain brain structures for the expression of psychologically defined constructs such as personality will make a great difference in the future of medicine."

The researchers foresee PET becoming the preferred imaging method for individualized therapy in a range of disorders caused by addictive behaviour-such as drug abuse or pathological gambling-because it is the only method able to show specific local changes in different neurotransmitter systems (opiate, dopamine and serotonine) involved in addiction. These changes are different in different people and different types of addiction.

The researchers further suggest that PET could be used to predict a favorable response to treatment with drugs that block agents such as morphine, heroin or alcohol from binding to opiate receptors and may one day aid in determining treatment of other psychiatric diseases, such as personality disorders. PET may also play a central role in the development and preclinical evaluation of new anti-craving drugs since it enables researchers to investigate noninvasively the in vivo pharmacological effects of these drugs on the reward system.

The group's next study will delve deeper into the description of the neurochemistry of human personality and expand study sample sizes, according to Gerhard Gründer, M.D., professor of psychiatry and psychotherapy, Aachen University, Aachen, Germany.

"One of the more interesting aspects of this study," he added, "is that it shows that PET technology is capable of detecting subtle biochemical differences in the brain in healthy persons, which may ultimately be responsible for what we consider the individual personality. This has far-reaching implications-not only for choosing the best individual treatments, but also in discussions of an individual's free will."

Coauthors of "Opiod Receptor PET Reveals the Psycholobiologic Correlates of Reward Processing" include Mathias Schreckenberger, Peter Bartenstein, André Klega, Hans-Georg Buchholz, Christina Müller, department of nuclear medicine, and Armin Scheurich, department of psychiatry and psychoterapy, all at Johannes Gutenberg-University, Mainz, Germany; Gerhard Gründer, department of Psychiatry and Psychotherapy, Aachen University, Aachen, Germany; Ralf Schirrmacher, Esther Schirrmacher, department of neurology and neurosurgery , McGill University, Montreal, Canada; Gjermund Henriksen, department of nuclear medicine, Technical University, Munich, Germany.

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Britain - Children--Young people: 'My body is wrong...' [2008-08-14 The Guardian]

http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2008/aug/14/children.youngpeople

'My body is wrong'
Should teenagers who believe they are transgender be helped to change sex? And if so, what about the four-year-olds who feel the same way? Viv Groskop meets the parents and doctors in favour of intervention

Viv Groskop
The Guardian, Thursday August 14 2008

'She was our first child," recalls Sarah (not her real name), a mother of two who lives in the south of England. "But from age three we knew something was wrong. She was very introverted, isolated. When she started school at four she came home and said she was a freak. It seemed a strange word for a four-year-old to use. She was always quite a sad little person."

Sarah's daughter was born and grew up as a boy. Now 19, she is far happier in a woman's body as a post-operative transsexual. It took two years for the family to get used to calling her "she". Her mother says her daughter experienced her childhood as mental torture, especially during puberty. "Looking back, we could never find any tape in the house. It was because she was taping her genitals up every day. She said to us later that she thought it would all go right for her at puberty, that her willy would drop off and she would grow breasts. She said she was going completely crazy because she knew in her head that she was a girl."

One day, when her daughter was 14, Sarah walked in on her in her bedroom. "She was there in front of the mirror with her genitals tucked away. She was very embarrassed. I said, 'I don't know what's happening here but if you want to talk to me, you can.' About 10 minutes later she came and lay on the bed next to me and said, 'I want to be a girl. I'm not a boy. My body is wrong. Everything is wrong.'" For Sarah, this was more than shocking: "I had watched programmes on transgender, I'm very interested in people, it's part of who I am to find out about these things ... But you never imagine it's going to happen to you."

Sarah sought help from her GP - who laughed. Eventually, her daughter got a referral to the one London clinic that deals with gender identity disorder in children and adolescents. But obtaining treatment on the NHS in her daughter's mid-teens was slow and difficult. Several suicide attempts followed and the family remortgaged their house to pay for private hormone treatment. Once Sarah's daughter was 18, they also paid for an operation abroad.

The plight of children with gender identity disorder has made headlines this year. In February an inquest was held into the death of Cameron McWilliams, a 10-year-old boy from Doncaster, who hanged himself. The court heard that he had asked permission to wear makeup and girls' underwear. "It was apparent he was unhappy and said he wanted to be a girl," his mother said. "He did like girls' things." Later the same month Lawrence King, 15, from Oxnard, California, who described himself as "gender non-conforming" and was a victim of school bullying, was shot to death in a science laboratory by another pupil.

Internationally, there is controversy over medical treatments that could be used to help children in this situation. In May, Dr Norman Spack, the US's leading authority on "gender-confused" children and a paediatric endocrinologist at the Children's Hospital in Boston, revealed on US National Public Radio that he has at least 10 paediatric transgendered patients who are receiving puberty-blocking hormone treatment. He says that the procedures allow children to buy time to make a decision about gender reassignment surgery. Once they have gone through puberty - and fully developed the body of the gender they don't want - it is much more difficult.

Awareness of transgender children is growing. Earlier this year a book called The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals (Cleis Press) was published. "Thousands of families face raising children who step outside the pink or blue box," says the blurb.

But their stories rarely cross into the mainstream because families don't want their children to be identified. Even adult transsexuals risk ridicule (and sometimes physical abuse) when talking about their past. The Oprah Winfrey Show first featured an 11-year-old girl who wanted surgery to become a boy in 2004. Last year, a very cute six-year-old girl, Jazz, appeared on the Barbara Walters show in the US. She had been born as a boy but she identified so strongly as a girl that her parents decided to let her be who she wanted to be. She and her parents appeared on television under assumed names. "We'll say things like, 'You're special. God made you special.' Because there aren't very many little girls out there that have a penis," said her mother Renee. They were comfortable with identifying their child as transgender.

Gender issues can appear as young as four (although the parents of the aforementioned Jazz insist that their son made it clear he wanted to wear a dress from the age of 18 months). "It usually becomes more evident when they go to school," says Simona Giordano, a senior lecturer in ethics and psychiatry at the University of Manchester who is conducting an international study into gender identity in children. "There have been reported cases of kids who won't drink for the duration of the school day so that they don't have to go to the toilet, and who don't want to sleep in a bedroom with their peers."

In Britain, there is only one place where children who feel this way can be treated: the Gender Identity Development Service at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust in London, run by Dr Domenico di Ceglie, author of a 1998 ground-breaking study on transgender children, A Stranger in My Own Body: Atypical Gender Identity Development and Mental Health (Carnac). He became aware of the needs of the children with gender-identity issues when working as a child psychiatrist in Croydon in the 1980s. His colleague Polly Carmichael, a consultant psychiatrist, explains: "We get 60 to 80 referrals a year and our referrals are going up. We see children from as young as six up to aged 18."

Not every child diagnosed will go on to have gender reassignment surgery. Ultimately, about a quarter do. Others may experience discomfort about their gender for reasons connected to traumatic events in their life. In Di Ceglie's case notes, he recalls the story of a five-year-old boy whose grandmother died. She had been his main carer. He identified with her so strongly that after her death he began to play with dolls, dress up in his mother's clothes and play wedding games, in which he was always the bride. Once he had counselling and was able to express his grief about losing his grandmother, his behaviour changed.

Linda (also not her real name) is the mother of a child who experienced gender identity disorder and now helps run Mermaids, which was set up in 1994 and remains the only UK support group for children with gender identity disorder. (Pete Burns raised funds for the organisation when he appeared on Celebrity Big Brother in 2006.) It has some members as young as seven and a special mailing list for adolescents aged 12 to 19.

Linda receives a couple of inquiries a week: "We get a lot of calls from parents who have five- to nine-year-olds. There seem to be more boys than girls affected at that age," she says, "Which is probably because it's more acceptable for girls to be tomboys. If you have a little girl who wants to cut her hair short or play football, that is seen as normal. But if you have a boy who wants to draw mermaids or dress up as a princess, they get made fun of." Once puberty hits, the numbers even out and there are as many girls as boys seeking help. For some children, it is a passing phase, she says. "For others it is likely to go on for some years and will cause a lot of problems." This is something of an understatement.

A conference to discuss gender identity disorder in adolescents will be held in October at the Royal Society of Medicine. Some parents whose children have gender identity issues are already angry about the fact that few professionals have been invited from abroad. They see the UK as lagging behind developments in other countries. Treatment centres in Australia, Belgium, Canada, Germany, Norway, the Netherlands and the US all offer medication to suspend puberty. Not enough is known about this in the UK, according to the Gender Identity Research and Education Society (Gires), and only two of the 15 presenters at the conference are from overseas.

Terry Reed, a trustee at Gires and the mother of a transgender adult, says that many British specialists are "transphobic". "As far as they're concerned, a trans outcome is bad. They are hoping that during puberty the natural hormones themselves will act on the brain to 'cure' these trans teenagers. What we do know is what happens if you don't offer hormone blockers. You are stuck with unwanted secondary sex characteristics in the long term and in the short term these teenagers end up suicidal."

Reed has a transsexual daughter who had reassignment surgery at the age of 19. "The only indication I did have when she was a child was that she showed an interest in female clothing - not wearing it, but just having some in her room. I said, 'You mustn't take your sister's clothes,' and then forgot about it. I was completely amazed, shocked and frightened when I did find out some years later what was happening. But I have always felt that people have a right to be who they are. I felt that whoever this person was, I was her parent and I wanted to support her." She and her husband set up Gires in 1997: "We have run 11 family workshops and seen over 200 individuals in family situations. I like to think that we have helped an enormous number of people to get over that first shock of rejection and, sadly, sometimes, revulsion."

Part of the organisation's mission is to break down resistance to the idea that gender identity confusion is a problem. "We call it gender variance - not gender identity disorder," explains Reed, "because that is pathologising it." She also wishes people would understand that it is not something transgender people choose. "When you live with it, it is so obvious and so extreme. Some of these children are saying from a very early age, 'This is what I am. Why doesn't anyone understand that my name is Bob and I am not a girl.' Sometimes it's as soon as they can talk - at age two or three."

But Gires' current fight is to make the puberty-blocking drugs more available to this minority of desperate children who, they argue, show obvious signs of needing them. At present, these drugs are usually prescribed at 16 at the earliest in the UK (in the Netherlands, for example, they are given as young as 12 or 13). Dr Giordano says: "The UK stance on puberty-suppressing drugs is completely unreasonable. In other countries they are provided as soon as puberty has commenced. But obtaining this treatment - which suppresses oestrogen in girls and testosterone in boys - is very difficult in this country." From the late 1990s the Dutch have been monitoring a group of around 350 adolescents with "gender divergent identity": a small number of these have had access to puberty-suppressing drugs and are planning to go on for surgery. In Dr Giordano's opinion these drugs are safe: "It is a temporary, reversible intervention. If the child changes their mind, they can be interrupted. They are entirely benign with no known side effects."

Parents who want the puberty-blocking treatment argue that their children's lives are at risk if they don't get it. Some are already seeking help abroad. Although some doctors are concerned that the complicating factor with gender identity disorder is that it shows up in different ways in every individual, advocates of the treatment say it is possible to draw up clear guidelines so that the right people are identified early and quickly. Giordano explains: "At puberty the problem becomes more distressing." Once transgender children start going through puberty and acquire secondary sex characteristics, their reassignment surgery will be much more complicated - and less likely to be wholly satisfactory. There is a challenge in identifying those who need treatment, she concedes, "but there are cases that are very clear where the disorder is strong and persistent".

Dr Carmichael of the Gender Identity Development Service argues that the Dutch trial is far from complete. "The Dutch data looks promising. But they have not been doing it for so many years that you have long-term follow-up.The data is not over a long enough period of time and that concerns endocrinologists." There is also concern in the medical comm-unity that not enough evidence exists on the effects of puberty-blocking treatment on bone mass or on the brain. "The question is, if you halt your own sex hormones so that your brain is not experiencing puberty, are you in some way altering the course of nature?"

There is also fierce debate about the origin of gender identity disorder. Understandably, many parents of transgender children, as well as many transsexual adults, are convinced it is innate. Studies such as The Praeger Handbook of Transsexuality by Rachel Ann Heath (Greenwood) explore a potential biological basis for the condition. Others are yet to be convinced. "There is a small amount of evidence for differences in the brain," says Dr Carmichael. "That is a very interesting finding but it is not robust enough to say that it is definitely the only reason and that it is an innate condition. It is most likely multifactorial." She acknowledges, however, the strength of feeling that these children experience: "Feelings are very intense and it is very difficult for families and young people to cope with the uncertainty. They are very strong in their conviction that they are in the wrong body."

Because of the misunderstanding and stigma surrounding gender identity, children are often horrifically bullied, even in their own families. Another of Di Ceglie's case studies is Mark, 16. He identified as a girl from the age of three. At the age of seven, he was raped by his father - which confirmed his belief that he was female. He has just gone into therapy. The doctor advised waiting until he was 18 to decide on a course of action.

When Sarah's daughter started dressing as a girl for the first time at the age of 16 on her walk to school, people would shout from their cars: "Girl with a cock!", "Tranny!" and "Man-beast!". "At her school they were shocked but they were wonderful," remembers Sarah. "It was explained to all the year groups that it was a condition and not a choice. They explained the effect it had on her and that bullying would not be tolerated. The kids were great. It was the parents saying they didn't want a freak in school with their child."

Sarah believes that anyone watching a teenager go through this process would want them to have the drugs as soon as possible. Her daughter was denied them until the age of 16, by which point she already had an adam's apple, a deep voice and facial hair. She understands all this is hard for people to take in; at the age of 11 her second child had to process the fact that his brother was becoming his sister. Family friends still forget what has happened and ask, "How are the boys?" "It takes a long, long time to come to terms with. It took us about two years to stop crying for our loss and also for the pain that we knew our child was going to have to go through. No one would choose this. It's too hard. I've asked my daughter, 'If this condition was known about in 1989 when I was pregnant and there was an option to have a termination, would you have wanted me to?' She said yes. And I agree. If I had known what it would be like for her, I would have done it. That's how bad it is."

Her daughter eventually got the outcome that felt right - but she is still getting over the events of the last six years. "She is still young and everything is raw for her. She hates the label 'transsexual'. She is just a girl who happened to need the surgery to make her genitals right".

• Mermaids: Family Support Group for Children and Teenagers with Gender Identity Issues can be reached at http://www.mermaids.freeuk.com/

• The Gender Identity Research and Education Society is at http://www.gires.org.uk/

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Malaysia - “Since Islam rejects (Mak Nyah/M2F gender variant) people like me, may I leave Islam?” [2008-08-14 The Star]

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/8/14/focus/22069684&sec=focus

Thursday August 14, 2008

Time to engage Mak Nyah

A WRITER'S LIFE BY DINA ZAMAN
The Mak Nyah community wants to be part of society and to be accepted as they are. This calls for heart-to-heart engagement and not enforcement.


A TRANSSEXUAL asked: “Since Islam rejects people like me, may I leave Islam?”

“Now I know you are really crazy! You’re already in trouble with the authorities, you want to court more trouble?” her colleague interjected.

“I don’t see what the problem is. You, and I, and everyone here are subject to harassment all the time, and constantly reminded that we are an abhorrent to the faith. So why be part of a religion that rejects you?”

This particular dilemma was discussed at an audit I undertook as part of an HIV/AIDS project recently.

The audit was conducted to identify gaps in outreach work in HIV/AIDS in Malaysia, and the discussion with transsexuals, who make up a good number of marginalised communities (the others are injecting drug users, gay men and sex workers), was illuminating to say the least.

A transsexual identifies 'herself' as – or desires to live and be accepted as – a member of the sex opposite to that assigned at birth.

In Malaysia, derogatory slang to describe them would be pondans, laki lembut or mak nyah, though the latter term has been embraced by the community as an identifying factor in their cause.

The public perception of transsexuals ranges from contempt and revilement to resigned acceptance.

The fact is, transsexuals have existed in our society even before Independence, and played a significant role in the community.

They’re the dapur pondans – kitchen helpers – who worked for families as cooks and cleaners in a long gone era, and in villages were known as meks, who acted as the local tailor, make-up artist and wedding planner.

It is fascinating to compare the fond memories of the older generation of Malaysians who grew up with transsexuals as neighbours and domestic help.

The argument that is bandied in contemporary Malaysia is that they knew their place, and were not ‘out there’ now as transsexuals who – as moralists have argued – contribute to moral decay.

From a religious standpoint, transsexualism is forbidden. Islam permits hermaphrodites to undergo sex change operations so the person can choose to be either a female or male.

Forbidden are mukhannis – men who behave like women and dress like them, and even undergoing sex change surgery to become women.

Non-Muslim transsexuals fare slightly better than their Muslim counterparts, as there is no official ruling as with the Muslims, even though their religions also forbid such actions. If caught, they would be charged for cross dressing and indecent behaviour under Section 21 of the Minor Offences Act 1955.

A Muslim man caught cross dressing can be charged under Section 28, Syariah Criminal Offences (FT) Act 1997, for immoral behaviour, and is liable to a fine not exceeding RM1,000 or to imprisonment not exceeding one year, or both.

The biggest grouse that rose out of the discussion was how they were portrayed on television shows by male personalities. Camped up, and in the words of a TS “? crude and lascivious ?” Not all transsexuals are involved in sex work, are campy, crass and uneducated.

“Why are we made the receiving end of jokes?” a transsexual asked. “The authorities tell us that what we do is bad ? as we are men, and should behave like men.

“And on television you have male actors dressed in drag, and playing it up to the hilt. And the language used! This makes us look bad.

“It doesn’t help when a few TS also play up to the myth by being loud and crass.”

Also noted was how the media approached the subject of transsexuals and transgender. The Malay media would be rather patronising, which does not help the cause. The English media sit on the fence, while the Chinese press is more open and sympathetic.

What transsexuals want is for them and the media to work together to highlight the social and health issues they face, so that they can do more effective advocacy work with government and religious authorities.

The reason a number of TS are involved in sex work is because they do not have a source of income.

With the market already so saturated by wedding planners of various sexualities (not all transsexuals want a career in fashion and cosmetics), and in ‘proper’ professional institutions their very presence clashes with the image of the organisation, where are they to go, and what are they to do?

B who comes from a well-to-do and supportive Malay family, thinks the problems could be solved if transsexuals themselves do not engage in “improper behaviour”.

She is one of the very few transsexuals who keep away from the Mak Nyah community. She considers herself well educated and proper, and does not indulge in clubbing and other activities that transsexuals involve themselves in, as she believes all these negate their cause.

When asked if she would consider mentoring, as she would be considered a ‘successful transgender’ who has assimilated well in society, she declined.

The issue of class and economic status is too jarring, and there would be resentment.

“It’s how you carry yourself, that makes people respect you. I know people think I’m a snob, but I could never let down my family.”

She practises safe sex, dates ‘proper men’ and not “sell her body”. She has no contact with her ‘sisters’ from Chow Kit and from the less stellar parts of Kuala Lumpur.

All is not lost. Already there are success stories: at PT Foundation, a weekly fardhu ain class is held for TS, sex workers and people in the community, so they can learn more about Islam.

More transsexuals are claiming their rights and are empowered. What the authorities, the medical community, human rights activists and the TS community should do is to keep on engaging with each other on TS issues.

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The writer lives in KL. She thanks her readers for their emails but is unable to reply to everyone because of work.

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Britain - LGBT Health Summit To Be Held 2008-09-04/05 In Bristol... [2008-08-14 Medical News Today]

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/118153.php

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual And Transgender Health Summit To Be Held In Bristol

14 Aug 2008

On September 4th and 5th the national Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) health summit will be held in Bristol. The third annual summit aims to raise the profile of LGBT people in the UK and the health inequalities they face. The event is being hosted by Terrence Higgins Trust and Equality South West.

The conference is aimed at anyone with an interest in health issues, especially those wishing to contribute to and influence public policy.

Paul Dunn, Chief Executive of Equality South West, said: "For too long, LGBT issues have been given less favourable treatment than other areas of equality.

"With the introduction of legal protection for LGBT people in the provision of goods and services, this event will provide a great opportunity for both service providers and individuals to discuss and influence future policies and outcomes."

This year's summit will build on the success of previous summits, held in London and Manchester, and will offer delegates an interesting mix of speakers, workshops and activities.

Additional information and an on- line application form can be found on the Summit website at http://www.lgbthealth.co.uk

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US - M2F gender variant academic Jillian Weiss sees the quest for trans equality as a group endeavor... [2008-08-14 SFO Bay Times]

http://www.sfbaytimes.com/?sec=article&article_id=8785

Former Attorney Tackles Workplace Issues, FTM Borderlands and Transphobia

By Jacob Anderson-Minshall

August 14, 2008

When Dr. Jillian Weiss first came out, she admits, “I didn’t really have the courage to transition on the job.  Nobody I knew at the time had done it, and I didn’t anticipate that it would be successful.”


Jillian Weiss 2008-08-14

A decade later, Weiss shepherds others through that very process, advising employers and trans workers alike on successfully managing workplace issues like transitioning on the job - which she argues is still “one of the most difficult situations.” Weiss has trained hundreds of employees and consulted with Fortune 500 corporations, small businesses and public agencies in developing trans-friendly human resource policies.  She has a J.D. and a Ph.D. in Law, Policy & Society and serves as an Associate Professor of Law and Society at Ramapo College of New Jersey.

A second edition of her guidebook, will be out in the coming year.  In the meantime, Weiss maintains the Transgender Workplace Diversity blog < http://www.transworkplace.blogspot.com/ > and is launching a series of workshops; the first of which will be held November 14th in New York City.

The former attorney recommends that, in addition to thoroughly researching the topic, employees broach it with their human resources department - confidentially - well in advance of their transition. “It’s not just a matter of acceptance,” she maintains.  “It’s understanding that policy is beast unto itself and you have to plan everything.”

Identifying as a woman, transsexual, transgender (“for people who aren’t aware of the various types of identities that exist in the community”) and bisexual, Weiss says of her female partner, “I plan to stay with her the rest of my life.”

In addition to addressing workplace issues, Weiss has written about interactions between the trans and lesbian and/or gay communities.  One such article describes a generational divide in the lesbian community.  “If you look at the writing of younger people,” Weiss suggests, “There’s a lot more fluidity - and acceptance of fluidity - for sexual orientation and gender presentation and gender identity.  Younger people’s understanding of what it means to be a lesbian and what it means to be FTM is changing.”

Weiss also examined the roots of lesbian and gay trans- and bi-“phobia,” determining, “It’s based on political division, and… internalized homophobia.  It’s a rejection by gays and lesbians of more radical forms of gay and lesbian sexuality… It’s trying to scapegoat a particular portion of the community in an attempt to escape discrimination.  That has never worked.  It’s a totally failed policy, but some people are clinging to it.”

Her latest research project was sparked by efforts in Gainesville, Florida, where a campaign to overturn sexual orientation and gender identity protections is based on the contention that sexual predators could take advantage these laws to invade women’s locker rooms.  Weiss hopes to survey locales where nondiscrimination ordinances are in place to determine how many (if any) of these incidences have actually occurred.

Weiss sees the quest for trans equality as a group endeavor,  “not something that should be reserved to people who are quote activists or…academics or scholars.  The way to do [it] is simply to…come forward and…educate people.  Ultimately that’s what’s going to change society.  A lot of transgender people are concerned about standing up too tall or too proud…fearing that they’ll be the target of violence and ridicule. [But] to change society we need to stand up and be counted.”

If you’re interesting in counting, Weiss wants your help with her current research project; contact her at jweiss@ramapo.edu.

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Britain - Kellie Telesford (nee Kayiode Dexter Telesford) - Teenager cleared of transsexual murder... [2008-08-14 Croydon Guardian]

http://www.yourlocalguardian.co.uk/news/local/croydonnews/3595425.Teen_cleared_of_transsexual_murder/

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Teen cleared of transsexual murder

5:11pm Thursday 14th August 2008

By Court reporter

A teenager accused of strangling a pre-op transsexual in her bedroom after discovering she was still a man was today cleared of murder.

The Old Bailey jury was told Shanniel Hyatt, 18, garrotted 39-year-old Kellie Telesford with a brown furry scarf after taking her out for a date.

The pair had met just hours before after bumping in to each other in Norbury and agreed to go for a drink.

The beautician was found three days later lying on the floor of the bedroom of her Leander Road, Thornton Heath flat, still in her underwear with a white sheet pulled across her body.

Hyatt, from Thornton Heath, admitted being with her on the night of her death and stealing her mobile phone, freeview box and DVD player. He also used her Oyster card to catch the bus home but he denied murder.

The teenager had said he had left Miss Telesford “fit and well” and had not attacked her.

His barrister Joanna Greenberg QC told the court the victim had a habit of “taking men to her flat and engaging in intimacy” and was “quite good” at concealing her gender from them.

She suggested Miss Telesford could have died during a “kinky sex game” with another man after Hyatt had left the flat.

Hyatt was cleared of murder and an alternative of manslaughter by the jury after four hours of deliberations.

But he now faces being kicked out of the country as an illegal immigrant.

Judge Paul Worsley QC said: “Shanniel Hyatt you have been found not guilty of being involved in the killing of Kellie Telesford.

“You are discharged in respect of this matter although I understand you will remain in custody in respect of other matters.”

Jamaican illegal immigrant Hyatt will now remain in custody facing deportation.

Prosecutor Sally O'Neill QC said: 'When police broke in to the flat they saw her lying on the floor on the left side of the bed and a bay window, covered by a white throw.

When he was later interviewed by police it was put to him that he had reacted violently after discovering she was a pre-op transsexual during the date, but the teenager denied this.

Miss O’Neill told the court Hyatt said he discovered Kellie had been a man an hour before the police interview and had not known she was a biological male while he was with her.

“He said he ‘felt p*ssed about finding out’ and said he would have left straight away. He denied he made the discovery at the flat and became violent as a result.”

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US - Is God a he-she? [2008-08-14 Chicago Tribune]

http://newsblogs.chicagotribune.com/religion_theseeker/2008/08/is-god-a-he-she.html

August 14, 2008

Is God a he-she?

The journal of Reform rabbis published an article this week proclaiming that if the four-letter Hebrew name of God were spelled backward and pronounced, it would sound like the Hebrew words for "he" and "she."

Held by Jewish tradition to be unpronounceable, the Tetragrammaton is often replaced by "Adonai" or "Lord" when Jews read scripture. Christians often pronounce it as Yahweh or Jehovah.

Could Yahweh have both a yin and a yang? Does God’s gender matter?

Rabbi Mark Sameth, the New York rabbi behind the article, said yes indeed. Based on 13 years of study, he has concluded that God is a hermaphrodite.

"If we read the text as a mystic might, paying extremely close attention, assuming that the text conceals more than it reveals, we may find hints regarding God’s androgynous nature, so to speak, peeking out through the surface level of the Torah," he wrote in the article published this week in the CCAR (Central Conference of American Rabbis) Journal.

"If Moses’ name spelled backward becomes the name HaShem [God’s name,] might not God’s name spelled backward similarly reflect something essential about humankind? Indeed it does."

The four consonants that make up the Tetragrammaton appear 6,823 times in the Hebrew Bible. Since early Hebrew script included no vowels, the pronunciation of the name was known only by those who heard it.

According to Sameth’s research, ancient Israelites sprinkled the Tetragrammaton into everyday salutations until 586 B.C.E., when the First Temple was destroyed. Eventually, it was uttered only by priests. After the destruction of the Second Temple, it was no longer pronounced at all.

Sameth argues that when the four letters are arranged in their proper order, they spell out the sounds of "hu" and "he," the Hebrew words for "he" and "she." Therefore, he concludes, the ancient Israelites’ notion of God was not masculine, but dual-gendered, or hermaphroditic.

Sameth doesn’t advocate suddenly saying the name—backward or forward. But he does encourage Jews to open their minds and think more inclusively about God.

Rabbi Peter Knobel of Beth Emet the Free synagogue in Evanston praised Sameth’s theory as "creative."

"In truth and error all we really know is that this name has become the precious name," said Knobel, president of the CCAR. "It’s so precious we choose not to pronounce it. It represents a deity who is beyond definition."

"I see a lovely rabbinic sermon," he added. "I might even use it some time."

What do you think? Is Sameth on to something? Or is his theory about "hu" and "he" just a bunch of hooey?

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